Blog

The First Coaching Tip in 2021

by Merv Rogers, MCC for Coaching Out of the Box

Welcome to 2021!

Well, wasn’t that an interesting year?

It stretched you, might have frustrated you and it may have revealed more of you.

In the face of an unexpected life twists, three groups of people show up: Innovators, Managers and Resistors

Each group plays an important part. You will have experienced each of these roles this year. Some for short periods of time and some for long periods with a lot of slipping back and forth between them.

Let’s bring your focus to the three roles we all can experience in this coming year.

There will be Pacesetters, Leaders, and Influencers.

  • The innovators can shift to be the Pacesetters
  • The Managers can shift to be the Leaders
  • The Resistors can shift to be Influencers
Read More

Seven Questions You Need Answered Before Signing Up for a Coach Training Program

by Coaching Out of the Box



The following are questions you should ask any coaching company you are considering partnering with for your Coach Training to become an ICF Credentialed Coach...

  1. What are the credentials of the coach facilitators who are delivering the program?

    Ask for the experience and confirm the credentials of the coach facilitators who will be taking part in your training. Invest some time to speak to the people behind the program you are considering.

  2. Is the program schedule convenient? Does it offer flexibility?

    Can you do the program from home or on a laptop from anywhere or do you need to be physically present at a facility? What happens if you can’t make a session? Can you make it up or is there a replay?

  3. Does the program have a good reputation?

    Do they have an abundance of testimonials? Ask them if it’s possible to speak with one of their graduates? Are their trainers ICF credentialed? Search the internet to see what people are saying about them online.
Read More

10+1 Things you need when dealing with a Crisis

by Coaching Out of the Box®

This list of 10+1 important considerations when Coaching Through Crisis is presented as a mindful guide you can put in practice today.

  1. Reset your coaching agreement. Align to the new conditions.

    In the coaching relationship we have an agreement.  We have an agreement in terms of what we're going to talk about. We have a formal agreements for payment. There's also a subtle coaching agreement, which simply says "what are we working on together?  What's the focus of our conversation? What are the outcomes? How are we going to measure our success? Now is a really good time to realign those those coaching agreements by having a conversation with each one of your clients to align to a new set of conditions and continue to align as conditions change.

  2. Shift their fear to facts – Ask: What do you know for sure?

    It's real easy to focus on the fear because it's available - the shift we need is to move from fear to facts. A powerful question to ask is "What do we know for sure?" We know we have this fear somebody might get ill. What are we know for sure is they are not sick today.  We know for sure if they're taking precautions today. We know for sure is that they're isolating and they're following the instructions that's what we know for sure. A grounding in reality of what you know. What's the truth of today? What's the what's the truth in the moment.

    For example, on a virtual walk with a client, who was at about 10,000 feet in terms of stress and frustration and overwhelm and work -- for the forty minutes all the focus on that one question. "What do we know for sure?" The client started out unsure but you keep circling back to that question. By the time we were done with our virtual walk, they felt they knew where I'm going. They had very good clarity. Fear facts replace fear very very substantially.

  3. Fully listen for the context. Listen for what is missing.

    One of the core skills of any coach any manager and hopefully any parent is the ability to listen. In coaching we call it listening for context. The adage that only 7% of what we say in words is what's communicated and the rest, the other 93%, is nonverbal and tone. It's really important to listen to the context of the conversations that are happening, particularly in this kind of crisis situation. You listen for what is missing. If they normally talk about their work, kids, or goals and aspirations and today they're not. That is a powerful observation that you can make and bring to their attention. Really fully listening to the context of what's happening of their mood.

Read More

Are your listening skills good or great?

by Coaching Out of the Box

If you want to be a great coach you must be a great listener.

Listening skills are essential for anyone who wants to be a great coach. Most people think that if they hear somebody, they must be listening to them, but that isn’t true at all.

Hearing is the passive act of perceiving sound by the ear, but listening is active. Listening is something you intentionally choose to do. It requires concentration so that your brain can process what is heard and then create meaning from words and sentences. On average, people forget between one thirds and half of what we heard within 8 hours. The responsibility of coaching means that it isn’t good enough to be average.

Great listeners ask questions that tap into the coachee’s ideas and wisdom. They listen for what is not said. They check in to make sure they understand what the other person is saying. They stay focused, they have patience, they don’t make assumptions, and they get it right. Most of us aren’t born with it, but lucky for us, great listening is a skill that we can learn and practice.

What gets in the way of being a great listener?

Many things get in the way of being a great listener. Some of the challenges are human and some of them are technological, but we have to be alert to them all before we start listening.

  • Distractions in the room
  • Mentally scripting what you need to do or say next
  • Tempting incoming emails and text messages
  • The need to get your point out or disagree with the coachee
  • Boredom or disinterest in the topic
  • Hunger
  • Complacency about listening

And the other person in your conversation faces all the same challenges while they listen to you.

Why being a great listener is so important for coaches

The ICF defines listening as the “Ability to focus completely on what the client is saying and is not saying, to understand the meaning of what is said in the context of the client’s desires, and to support client self-expression.”

People are yearning to be listened to and listening leads to learning. As coaches we help our clients go farther, faster, easier, quicker, and better than they would have without a coach. But there is no way to do this if we aren’t listening to what the client is really saying.

Great listening skills have never been as important as they are today. People are dealing with so much information and so many distractions while facing bigger and more complex challenges. People need to be listened to.

Great coaches learn great listening skills.
We teach great coaches 

We have a wide range of programs that incorporate listening skills into learning. The following tables provide an overview of our courses.  

Take the first step towards coaching Obtain an ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC) Credential
  • Fast Track to ICF Credential
    • 6 programs in 1
    • Streamline package
    • 60 hours of Approved Coach Specific Training
    • 7 Group Coaching hours
    • 3 Mentor coaching hours

 

 On your way to an ICF Credential?  

 

Experienced coaches wanting CCE’s in Core Competencies Introduce or train others in coaching
 

To find out more about our programs and where you can enhance your listening skills, schedule a call with our Program Advisor.

Read More

Coaching Success Story: 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™

by Coaching Out of the Box

Coaching Success Story: 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™

We recently learned of yet another success story that illustrates just how powerful and transformational coaching is and we just had to share it.

Alison Hendren, founder and CEO of Coaching Out of the Box® sat down with Colin McAllister, one of our licensed trainers to learn more about his success story in delivering the 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™. The results were, in his words, “really, really positive outcomes and amazing”. One participant of his program had this to say, “In 30 years this is the best training session I’ve been a part of”.

View this short video to learn more about Colin’s Success Story.

If this type of success story gets you fired up and you want to learn more about becoming a licensed trainer, keep reading!

What is a licensed trainer and why would you want to become one?

A Coaching Out of the Box® licensed trainer is a coaching educator that has developed the expertise and earned the right to deliver the 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™.  The 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™ model;

  • is a simple, intuitive and highly transferable framework that teaches powerful and practical coaching skills
  • is easy to learn, easy to apply and effective; especially well-suited for busy executives and managers
  • has been delivered to 20,000 people in 38 countries

To become licensed, coaches complete the Train the Trainer for the 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™. During this program participants not only develop the expertise to deliver the program but also gain in-depth knowledge of advanced coaching skills and learn to use their skills in a new and expanded role.

When you become a licensed trainer, you take on the role of educating others, helping them to develop coaching skills rather than coaching per se. Of course, a licensed trainer uses his/her coaching skills in the education process. Becoming a licensed trainer expands your reach, adds to your toolkit and provides another source of revenue.

If you are interested in learning more about becoming a licensed trainer, you’ll want to read our Guide to Becoming a Coaching Educator. This guide highlights the success story of another Coaching Out of the Box® licensed trainer. She had this to say about becoming a licensed trainer to deliver the 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™

“the key benefits to me as a business owner is that it is a fabulous tool in my toolkit. It is easy to talk to organizations about the 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™. It is a money maker and an opportunity for group coaching which I find very fulfilling”.

Download the Guide here.

To learn more about the Train the Trainer for the 5/5/5 Coaching Skills Training Program™, click here or contact our Program Advisor.

Read More
Page 3 of 25